I'll start at the begining. My friend sarah (although she has stabed me in the back that i have writen about in previous posts) has a boyfriend called mike, until recently he worked at Iceland with me sarah, dave, soph and sophs mum (as well as other people but these are just the ones included in this). Dave and mike went on holiday a while ago with some other of their mates and today sophie swears me to secracy and then tells me that her mum told her mike cheated on sarah on this holiday. Her mum heard it from dave.

So now i have to make the decision of telling sarah or not. I feel the right thing to do is to tell her because he can't love her if he did that, and theres no saying he won't do it again. But on the other hand if i do mike and sarah will split up, mike will hate me and probably know it was dave who blabed so fall out with him, sophs mum and soph will also be in trouble with dave, but ultimately it all comes down to mikes fault but people never see it that way do they. Also there is no way of telling that sarah will actually believe me, or mike could just say dave was lieing and dave might actually say he was, or dave could actually of been lieing about it, i wouldn't put it past him..

What does everyone think i should do? I can't go and tell mike i know because then people who i found out through will still get into trouble and he might just deny it, what proof will i have? I might believe him. I can't go and ask dave if its true either because firstly we're not talking and secondly he could just deny it aswell. I need some way of getting them to tell me the truth, but without anyone else finding out that i know. Any suggestions?

also I'll add that I don't know if sarah would tell me the truth if it was me being cheated on, shes chosen not to get into trouble over telling me stuff before. But is being a good person different from treating people the same way they treat you?

but not in the religious sence, actually i've just got holes in me. One in my arm, one in my hand and a giant gash on the crease under my breast!

I don't think i wrote that i was going to have it in my blog but i had an operation yesterday to take a giant fibro somthing lump out of my breast. The holey hand is where they put a valve type thing to inject me with stuff and to put a drip if i needed it, the arm is where they took yet again MORE blood, and obviously the gash is how they took the lump out.

My friends have been good. But Dave has been pissing me off so much lately. He didnt bother to text me like everyone else did last night after my op so I text him sayin I'm still alive thanks for asking, and he reckoned he didnt know it was today, but I just told him he could of asked when it was when hes always using the excuse that he doesn't have anything to talk to me about when he ignores me on msn, he knew I was having the op because I was with him when I was having consultations and stuff. And even now he hasn't botherd to ask me about it checking I'm ok or anything. So all that stuff about wanting us to be really good friends was just bullshit. I reckon the only people he tries to keep in his life are the ones that will benefit him in some way, he wanted me there before he got back with his ex (who hes with now) but now that he dont need me under the thumb anymore to flirt with and make him feel like hes worth anything he doesn't bother with me at all. Unless hes bored in work and looking for someone to playfight with. Oh well hes a dick.